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My experience about dating a Chinese Girl
I have been online for six weeks looking for a Chinese girlfriend.
i have been on two different online services actually. i have had many
responses but most are from Chinese women who appear to be serious,
credible, worthy of respect and eager to find love via a medium which is
fraught with risk and potential deception. So I have tried to give as
good as I got; that means be frank, honest and reasonably clear from my
end. I know not a soul in PR China so I did this speculatively, just to
discover who might connect with me. I have been suitably impressed with
the sincere and (apparently) genuine responses. Some have been unrealistic
("you are THE ONE, I see it in your face") some cautious ("I like to
know you very well first") but none were frivolous, seductive or silly. So
when I get there in late summer, I will look forward to putting some actual
contact into my online relationship. If I was horriby wrong or naive, I will
confess it openly here. But my overall impression is that Chinese ladies
are bright, aware, caring and altogether human-they know i am white, a foreigner
with very little language and no friends, and they have been gracious
and supportive to me. Enough said.
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